Monday, November 12, 2012

Why men like Petraeus risk it all to cheat

An admitted affair has crumbled the career of CIA Director David Petraeus, prompting the evergreen question: Why do people with so much to lose risk it all for sex?

In the last few years alone, several public figures, from former Rep. Anthony Weiner to action star and former California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger, have admitted to straying from their marital vows. In Petraeus' case, a miscalculation of risk may have contributed to the decision to cheat, psychologists say.

"People tend to underestimate how quickly small risks mount up" because of repeated exposure to those risks, said Baruch Fischhoff, a professor of social and decision science at Carnegie Mellon University. "You do something once and you get away with it ? certain things you're probably going to get away with ? but you keep doing them often enough, eventually the risk gets pretty high."

Even so, men can become blind to risk at the sight of an attractive woman, and from an evolutionary perspective, cheating can be a positive mechanism for ensuring gene survival, regardless of risk, scientists say.

Military affairs

Petraeus, a retired four-star general, resigned his post as CIA Director on Friday (Nov. 9), admitting to an affair with Paula Broadwell, his biographer. Twenty years the general's junior, Broadwell had close access to Petraeus for several years, but their affair reportedly did not start until after he left the military in 2011.

A West Point graduate, Broadwell is a lieutenant colonel in the U.S. Army Reserves. She reportedly bonded with Petraeus over physical activity, going on runs with him and remaining a close confidant after Petraeus' military career ended.

That time together likely contributed to the intimacy between Petraeus and Broadwell, said Frank Farley, a Temple University psychologist, just as many people begin affairs after getting close in the workplace.

Petraeus is not the first high-ranking military man to have an affair, said Farley, who is also a past president of the American Psychological Association. Famously gruff World War II general George Patton had an affair with his wife's step-niece. General Douglas MacArthur had a mistress named Isabel Rosario Cooper, whom he met in the Philippines.

And General Dwight D. Eisenhower, later president, may have had an affair with his World War II chauffer, Kay Summersby, according to the woman's memoirs and some suggestive letters left behind after both parties died.

"The nation should not be surprised at Petraeus having an affair," Farley told LiveScience.

Leaders like Petraeus tend to be bold risk-takers, Farley said, a personality trait that is very helpful when leading soldiers into battle. The same trait may make these leaders more likely to take risks in their personal lives, as well. [10 Easy Paths to Self Destruction]

Broadwell may have some of the same risk-taking traits as the former director. In a January interview with The Charlotte Observer, Broadwell, who is also married, called herself and her husband "adventure junkies."

Risk versus reward

Still, Petraeus' 38-year marriage and his career were at stake in his decision to pursue an affair. Extramarital liaisons are especially risky for CIA employees with access to classified information, because an affair can leave the person open to blackmail.

There are also concerns that Broadwell could have gotten classified information from Petraeus. For example, in a speech in Denver in October, Broadwell brought up details about the U.S. Consulate attack in Benghazi that may not have been public knowledge, according to The Daily Beast.

With risks like that on the line, could an extramarital affair be worth it? As it turns out, men may become blind to risk when an attractive woman enters the picture. One 2008 study found that men who played blackjack after seeing beautiful female faces took more risks than men who played the game after seeing unattractive faces.

This was true if the men were highly motivated in seeking new sexual partners. The blackjack risks seemed calculated to impress potential mates, study researcher Michael Baker, now a professor at Eastern Carolina University, told LiveScience. [The Sex Quiz: Myths, Taboos & Bizarre Facts]

More germane to high-profile affairs, Baker said, the risk of losing one's career or reputation is nothing compared with the evolutionary drive to reproduce. In that sense, while embarking on an affair may seem dumb, it actually shows something called "mating intelligence."

"These individuals have these very high-status, high-power positions, and the whole idea behind why people might be motivated to get these positions is because it gives them better access to resources that could be used to increase their reproductive success and attract more mates," Baker said.

Until the last few decades, extramarital affairs wouldn't have put a crimp in the careers of high-profile men, Baker said. It's only recently that men have been subject to the consequences of infidelity. And, of course, monogamy is often a lofty ideal.

"The human race has had thousands of years of problems with monogamy," Farley said. "The problems have not been resolved."

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YouTube Axing 60 Percent of Its Original Content Channels

Back in January, YouTube announced that it was launching around 160 channels of fresh, original content, that it would invest in to help it compete with traditional cable and network programming. Less than a year on, it's axing over half of them. More »


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Thursday, November 8, 2012

This Robotic Dragonfly Will Soon Flit Into Your Nightmares For $99

20121103175400-Picture14_copyResearchers at Georgia Tech have created a robotic dragonfly that can hover, dive, and climb like a real insect. With the help of a $1,000,000 grant from the Air Force, the team has built multiple prototypes of the consumer device and is now working on an Indiegogo project to sell the basic dragonfly for $99 and an upgraded version for $179. The ultimate version will cost $399 although they expect it to cost $1,500 retail.

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Unflappable Patent Troll Not Satisfied With $368 Million Apple Payday

VirnetX is not a company that, strictly speaking, makes things. It is, instead, a company that collects patents the way joyless millionaires collect hermetically sealed comic books: for profit. And while it just scored an impressive $368 million in a successful Apple lawsuit, it's not stopping there. It's out for a full-on iPhone, iPad, and Mac ban. More »


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Howard Fuller: One of the Most Powerful Educators in America

Civil rights leader Kenneth Clark once said to Howard Fuller, ?Did my work even make a difference??

Like Clark, who was instrumental in the Supreme Court?s decision to desegregate schools in 1954, education advocate Howard Fuller has asked himself this same question.

?If you really care and you live long enough,? Fuller, 71, says, you look back over your body of work and wonder what impact it has made.

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Looking at Clark and Fuller?s bodies of work, it is not hard to see that both have made a major impact on education in America.

For the last three decades, Howard Fuller has fought for education equality and school choice. He served as the superintendent of Milwaukee schools where he was a strong proponent of the voucher program, and is a Distinguished Professor of Education and the Founder and Director of Institute for the Transformation of Learning at Marquette University. The Institute empowers low-income families to choose the best education options for their children.

Fuller is also the is the co-founder of the Black Alliance for Educational Options, an organization that seeks to increase access to high-quality educational options for black children.

In a recent conversation, he stressed the urgency of reforming our education system. The problem, he says, is ?there?s a lot of activity around protecting the status quo.?

In spite of the rhetoric and talk about reform, Howard feels strongly that we don?t, at the deepest level, ?have a commitment to solve the educational problems in this country for our poorest children, a disproportionate number of whom happen to be children of color.?

Howard Fuller and students in Milwaukee. (Photo c/o Howard Fuller)

Although we talk about our children being important, he explains, ?The reality is that the interests of the adults are more important.?

While Fuller is not anti-union, his views differ with the teachers? unions, specifically regarding how they function and their overall impact on kids.

?I?m not a person that believes that what you need to do in order to make change is to get rid of unions ? but I am someone who understands that in order to make significant differences inside traditional districts, that you have to do something about the level of power and control that teacher unions have.?

Because of his strong viewpoints about the ?status quo? and his movement towards school choice, Fuller has also at times been categorized as being against public education.

He says he does not accept this assumption.

?I believe that one of the things we have to do in this country is create an alternative structure to the existing traditional public school structure. I don?t think that?s an issue of being opposed to public education.?

I look into the eyes of these kids and I just want them to have a decent shot at life.

Fuller makes a distinction between public education and the system that delivers public education. ?I believe that you can have a variety of different delivery systems to make sure the public is educated,? he says.

The delivery systems he is a proponent of include, charter schools and a push toward blended learning. Fuller is on the board of a charter high school, CEO Leadership Academy. He is also a fan of vouchers and opportunity scholarships ?which present the possibility of a different financial arrangement for how people can access schools.?

You can?t, he explains, ?have a single structure that controls education.?

Howard Fuller has given his life to education and like Kenneth Clark, he has always fought against the status quo. If you ask him why he's kept fighting, he'll tell you, ?I don?t know how else to live.?

It's simple, he says, ?I look into the eyes of these kids and I just want them to have a decent shot at life. I have no right not to fight and try and make this situation better.?

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Jenny is the Education Editor at TakePart. She has been writing for TakePart since 2009 and previously worked in film and television development. She has taught English in Vietnam and tutors homeless children in Los Angeles. Email Jenny | @jennyinglee | TakePart.com

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